Wed 9/23 @ 12:33 PM

The best thing for being sad,” replied Merlyn, beginning to puff and blow, “is to learn something. That is the only thing that never fails. You may grow old and trembling in your anatomies, you may lie awake at night listening to the disorder of your veins, you may miss your only love, you may see the world about you devastated by evil lunatics, or know your honour trampled in the sewers of baser minds. There is only one thing for it then — to learn. Learn why the world wags and what wags it. That is the only thing which the mind can never exhaust, never alienate, never be tortured by, never fear or distrust, and never dream of regretting. Learning is the thing for you.

T. H. White, The Once and Future King, a book I have liked a great deal so far (and which, have I mentioned this already, I have a hard time not viewing, in its first section, through the lens of my memories of Disney’s The Sword and the Stone, which is an odd enough phenomenon but one that will probably only get worse when I move onto later adult portions of Wart’s Arthur’s life and begin to view the book through the lens of Monty Python…).

Cart-before-horse cultural-reference navigation aside, the book has its little oddities.  At 180 pages in, I’ve read at least three separate offhand bits premised on just how bloody awful those savage American Indians are, something that I don’t know enough of about T. H. White to sort into the sincere vs. the ironic.  But 1939 was borderline medieval on a lot of civil-rights fronts, so it’s hard not to think the worst.  

Cf. Lovecraft et al, granting “a product of their times” as more the explanation than “he was a bad man” even in the worst case scenario, but it’s a jarring little break now and then in a book otherwise so clever and in a lot of ways dedicated to Merlyn’s self-awareness about the great changes time has wrought (whether you account for it forwards or backwards) on the perceptions of man and the quality of eddication.

Day 16: Interlude, part 1

11:56 AM

I’m sitting in JFK, on my first long layover of the trip — I arrived from RDU at 12:37, and I’ll be leaving for PDX at 8:40.  It’s 2:14 now, so I’ve got some time to kill to say the least. 

Find me nattering on about the details a bit over on twitter as @joshmillard, if you’re nasty.

I’m continuing to have a great time on the trip, and nothing has yet gone seriously wrong, so at the halfway point I’m feeling pretty good about this whole thing and looking forward to kicking off the second half in LA in a couple days.

But at the moment I’m more excited just to be home.  A day will not be enough.  I miss my wife.  Six hours of waiting for a long flight and a medium cab ride is sort of telescoping out in front of me now without any big distractions.

So, small distractions: here’s some notes.

1. I had my first itinerary scare this morning, checking in at RDU.  

The kiosk couldn’t help me, an agent coming around with a list didn’t see my name on it, and the woman at the counter who helped me post-kiosk didn’t find my flight either.

My flight out of RDU to JFK, that is.  My flight from JFK to PDX later tonight was all set.  The question of how I would be getting to JFK sort of hung in the air there between us for a moment.  Then we got it figured out:

When I rearranged my flights a week or so ago to nix Vegas and swap in PDX, the phone tech I spoke with got a little overzealous with the nixing and just plain killed RDU-JFK.  Oops.  That conversation took place on a windy Vermont porch with about half a bar of cell service as the tenuous bridge between me and the call center, so a miscommunication wasn’t too shocking in retrospect.

The record of that original booking made fixing it up pretty painless, fortunately, and here I am in JFK.  Quick and happy resolution, props to jetblue for that.

2. Music, books, internet, oh my.

My media-consumption habits are basically fucked at this point.  

2a. My daily internet reading has all pretty much gone AWOL — I’m a creature of habit, if I can’t check in daily I end up wanting to just write off checking in at all until normalcy returns — and so I’ll have the mixed blessing of a month of comics and blogs to catch up on once the whole trip is over.

2b. As for books, I brought four and haven’t gotten more than a quarter of the way through the first one, much as I’m enjoying it (The Once And Future King, of which more later), so it’s safe to say I overprepared a bit on that front.  Esp. considering that I have received a number of recommendations/reminders on the trip that would make good airport buys if I were short on material.  Anathem, for one.  How have I no read the latest Stephenson?  

2c. Music has been catch-as-catch-can — I don’t want to put an iPod when I’m hanging out with new friends, or when walking solo around a new town when I could be soaking in the local sonic signature, or when I’m back from a meetup and tipsy and tired, and that’s pretty much all of my time not spent in an airport or on an airplane on this trip.  I snuck in a couple hours of downtime yesterday morning, catching up on Metatalk business from the last couple weeks and listening to some comfort-food Wilco in my host’s living room, but that’s about it for non-air-transit listening for the last couple weeks.

2c-i. Girl Talk.  Loving it, listened to bits of Feed The Animals when it first came out but never really got around to giving it a good listen until this trip.  Grabbed it, Night Ripper, and some of the other stuff on Illegal Art (Steinski was basically my packing music before trip launch).  

2c-ii. But listening to it when I’m already disoriented from traveling is kind of a mixed bag.  If I get distracted from the fact that what I’m listening to is mashuppery, it can leave me feeling like losing my shit a little — the flu fever, where even simple television gets hard to keep track of in your addled state, and all the foggy-heated connotations that come with that.  The phonological spins.

2d. Speaking of television, I blame JetBlue for exacerbating some of these consumption-habit troubles.  Satellite TV at your seat is neat and all, but it’s also hard to ignore if you don’t remember to, and time spent channel-flipping is time wasted half the time at least.  And yet flip-flip-flip I do, with the miserable little blister-button controls on the armrest that I would otherwise prefer to have put up flush with my seatback in the first place.

I accidentally turned into one of those I Don’t Watch TV people a few years ago, by moving to an apartment with no cable and buying a TV without an antennae, and at this point I’m pretty okay with it.  I still watch plenty of TV, but I do it in bulk, without commercials, on my own schedule, thanks to things like Netflix and the internet and so on.  There’s too much good stuff for me to watch as it is; why I would bother with the bad shit too and ads wrapped around it all, I don’t know.

But then I get on a plane.  Way to undercut my otherwise reasonably-well-managed media-consumption philosophy with your admittedly-much-better-than-previous-airlines personal entertainment approach, jetblue.

3. Power stations good, LCD ad crawls bad.

JFK’s T5 area is littered with power stations, ten-foot-long bar type arrangements with four ass-fitting stool on each side and plentiful outlets.  Definitely a good thing (though not so ergo in the long run, stools are too low or counters to high depending on how you figure it but not great for wrist position in any case, and I’m a fairly tall guy).  Beats the shit out of hunting for a neglected outlet near some seats in one gate or another.

But they’ve got these clever touch screens from which you can in theory order food and drink to be delivered to you.  A neat idea, I guess, though I haven’t tried ‘em out yet.  With several hours to go, I might just for the hell of it, but it’s not really something I’m interested in.

Tough shit for me, then, that there’s no obvious way to turn them off.  And each screen is mounted in front of a stool, so you can’t sit at a bench without having a like 5-10 minute add loops constantly crawling by in your upper-center peripheral vision.  That’s obnoxious after a half an hour.  I’ll be here for more than a half an hour.

My complaints are all petty.  All except for homesickness, at least.  All in all I’m having a great time, and my white whines about airport accommodations should, for what little merit they even have, be taken in context of how much less accommodating some of this stuff would have been even ten years ago.

There’s something to be said about the likely (and weird) circumstance that the new post-9/11 tightened airport security, passengers-only-beyond-the-checkpoint philosophy of airport management has led to necessarily better gate-side service.  There’s not really any tasteful to way to say “hey that sure worked out well”, but there you go.  ”Silver lining” does not feel like the right phrase, so let’s just go with “it’s a weird world” and drop the subject.

2:56 now.  Less than six hours to go.  Strength.

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11:12 AM

Two nights in NC, two get-togethers.  Grand living.  Met some folks again that I’d met the night before, and some new folks as well.  
Viz plant, our Australian interloper in NC for a bit on work travel.  
Check out all of the meetup photos here.

Two nights in NC, two get-togethers.  Grand living.  Met some folks again that I’d met the night before, and some new folks as well.  

Viz plant, our Australian interloper in NC for a bit on work travel.  

Check out all of the meetup photos here.

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11:09 AM

For no particularly good reason, I’ve got a subgenre of Meeting Metafilter photos featuring me in the mirror (or, where no mirror is available, at arm’s length) in various of the restrooms I’ve been in.
If you’re keen on this sort of thing, you can follow the bathroom shots via this Flickr link.  SFW.

For no particularly good reason, I’ve got a subgenre of Meeting Metafilter photos featuring me in the mirror (or, where no mirror is available, at arm’s length) in various of the restrooms I’ve been in.

If you’re keen on this sort of thing, you can follow the bathroom shots via this Flickr link.  SFW.

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Tue 9/22 @ 8:33 AM

Flew into RDU in the afternoon, went out for dinner with a few folks in the evening at The Pit.  Folks are awful nice here, so apparently it isn’t just good marketing.  The meetup meetup isn’t until tonight, but last night was close enough for funk; you can click through to see all the pictures.

Flew into RDU in the afternoon, went out for dinner with a few folks in the evening at The Pit.  Folks are awful nice here, so apparently it isn’t just good marketing.  The meetup meetup isn’t until tonight, but last night was close enough for funk; you can click through to see all the pictures.

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8:29 AM

Hot Krispy Kreme, and coffee.  The donut was right off the factory conveyor.  (I have video.) 
Mefite Stewriffic, my gracious host in Durham, related to me the hitherto unknown fact that Krispy Kreme is a North Carolinian product.  Authenticity!  It tastes like donut!
I worry it might have ruined my appetite a little bit for dinner — I didn’t finish my (tasty) BBQ — but, dammit, I’m an adult and I’m allowed to be irresponsible.

Hot Krispy Kreme, and coffee.  The donut was right off the factory conveyor.  (I have video.) 

Mefite Stewriffic, my gracious host in Durham, related to me the hitherto unknown fact that Krispy Kreme is a North Carolinian product.  Authenticity!  It tastes like donut!

I worry it might have ruined my appetite a little bit for dinner — I didn’t finish my (tasty) BBQ — but, dammit, I’m an adult and I’m allowed to be irresponsible.

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8:26 AM

Parting gifts from DC.

Parting gifts from DC.

Good news, bad news

Mon 9/21 @ 10:49 AM

Good news: I just discovered while searching for my kleenex that I had packed the Canon 5D’s batteries and charger in a separate bag from the rest of my (lost) accessories.  Sweet relief!

Bad news: I feel like I’ve got a little nose cold today.  But it might just be (and I’m hoping it is) just some allergy randomness + being worn out a little.  Think I might try to snag a nap on the plane.

Day 14: Wrapping up the roadtrip

7:09 AM

So Philly was a marathon, Baltimore was a nice quiet relief, and DC was a great big party.  We’re on the road north, now, me and Alex and our friend Roj who met us in DC for complicated logistical reasons.  When we hit JFK, I’ll part ways and catch a plane until North Carolina.

The wisdom of mostly meeting up only every other day has become clear to me — Baltimore being a small, genial meetup at a neighborhood bar was close enough to a day off that it worked out well, but if it had been something big I might be just about destroyed by now.

I continue to really enjoy this trip.  I feel like I may be coming off my second wind, though, so we’ll see what my energy level is like in a few more days.

Lesson learned, too, with the roadtrip: two days in a city isn’t enough to see a city, but one day REALLY isn’t enough.  Philly we got a taste of, Baltimore we saw a park and a bar, DC we crawled through traffic on Mass Ave and waved at some embassies.  Not much of a getting-to-know-you setup, worth revising in any potential do-over.

Driving update: jesus fiddling fuck does New Jersey like its tolls.  And we’re sitting around making terrible, terrible Anne Frank jokes.  It’s good to be among friends.

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